Quick Answer
Most families need between 10 and 12 times annual income in term life coverage — but the honest answer comes from adding up what your family would actually owe and need: the DIME method.
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The DIME Method, Step by Step
- D — Debt: everything except your mortgage. Car loans, student loans, credit cards, plus ~$10,000 for final expenses.
- I — Income: annual income × the number of years your family needs it. Common anchor: until your youngest child turns 25.
- M — Mortgage: the full payoff balance — keeping the family home is usually priority one.
- E — Education: future college costs per child, roughly $80,000–$120,000 each at current trajectories.
Then subtract existing assets: savings, investments, 529s, and any group life insurance that’s portable.
Worked Example
35-year-old, $75,000 income, $250,000 mortgage, $30,000 other debts, 2 kids, $40,000 savings:
- Income: $75,000 × 15 years = $1,125,000
- Mortgage: $250,000
- Debts: $30,000
- Education: $160,000
- Minus assets: −$40,000
- Recommended coverage ≈ $1,525,000 → round to $1.5M
A 20-year, $1.5M term policy for a healthy non-smoker at 35 runs roughly $85–$130/month — usually far less than people expect.
Why the 10× Rule Fails (Both Directions)
For a high earner with no mortgage, 10× income can massively overinsure. For a young family with a big mortgage and daycare costs, 10× can leave a $400,000 hole. Needs-based math beats rules of thumb every time.
Term vs. Whole Life in One Paragraph
Term life covers a fixed window (10–30 years) at low cost — it’s pure insurance, ideal while your family depends on your income. Whole life adds a lifetime death benefit plus cash value, at premiums typically 5–15× higher. For most households, term is the right tool; whole life earns its place mainly in complex estate planning.
FAQ
Should a stay-at-home parent have coverage?
Yes. Replacing childcare, household management and logistics can cost $30,000–$50,000+ per year. A $400,000–$500,000 policy is a common benchmark.
Isn’t my work policy enough?
Group life is usually 1–2× salary and disappears when you change jobs. Treat it as a bonus, not a foundation.
What happens when the term ends?
Coverage stops — by design. The goal is that by year 20–30, your mortgage is paid, kids are independent and savings have grown. If not, you can re-apply (at older-age rates) or convert some policies to permanent coverage.
This article is for educational purposes only and is not insurance advice. Premium figures are illustrative. See our full disclaimer.
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